Have you ever had a desire to try anal sex?  Man or woman, this is probably something that has crossed your mind at some point, but you may have decided it to be a little on the wild side for you!

It is probably a reasonably easy trip for a male, but for women it may be much more daunting.  Women who have made the leap to anal sex will tell you that the anus is very sensitive and stimulus in that area can be extremely magnified. When anal sex is well done it can be really enjoyable and an intensely sensual experience, however an inconsiderate man can make the experience for the woman very bad!
 
Some women are attracted to anal sex because it is considered a kind of taboo act.  Sexual history has created a mentality that is predominantly "straight", where penis-vagina sex is considered healthy and acceptable and anal sex is considered "dirty".  However a lot of women would agree that "taking it up the butt" can be a deliciously naughty experience!

A lot of women are intimidated by the thought of anal sex because they fear it will be painful, and it certainly can be if they are not well prepared for it. However, with proper lubrication and penetration they may find it to be very erotic.  The anus must be very relaxed before penetration, so loosen it up with a well lubricated and suitable dildo or finger before trying the real thing.

Some women may be quite self conscious about their image and sexuality and may be afraid of experimenting, let alone enjoying anal sex, and may feel that the act will turn them into a "slut".  This, and other misgivings may mean that a couple will never indulge in the experience, which is a pity really, as any sex is good sex if it is done well!  

If you are curious and want to give it a try it is best if the subject is openly discussed and the man understands any misgivings his partner has.  Is she afraid of it hurting? is she afraid that she will be degraded in her partners eyes?   The man can overcome some of the trepidation by allowing the woman to penetrate him first using a dildo or a finger to show her that the experience is not necessarily uncomfortable and that he is willing to take it as well as give it.

Life is for living and every experience is worth it.........